I Refuse to do Q&As!
I was wrapping up my keynote. After showing the harm of fear-based leadership and the hope of Love-Centered Leadership, after stories, tools, laughter, and even a few tears, the energy in the room was electric. The audience was inspired and ready to take that energy into their breakout sessions and the rest of the conference.
And then came…The Q&A.
You know how that typically goes:
Someone makes a statement disguised as a question.
One person asks something so specific that it's only of value to them, while everyone else checks their phones.
Another person leaves out key information, so the question can't really be answered.
Or the question asked is so big that there's no way to respond in the time available.
Meanwhile, all the introverts with great questions stay silent.
In ten minutes, the energy fizzles.
So this year, I made a decision: No more Q&A from the stage!
It's not that I don't love answering questions about Love; I do! I just know there's a better way.
Instead of leaving after my keynote, now I stay for the whole day.
I mingle, connect, and listen. I share ideas and answer questions one-on-one or in small groups. I'm there for participants throughout the event in an extended and meaningful way.
And people LOVE it! ❤
When I told an audience that rather than do a Q&A, I'd be staying for the day to make myself available to them, they actually cheered. Someone even shouted, “No one is ever there for us! We are always there for everyone else.”
That day, I had dozens of deep conversations, answering complex “what about this?” questions, celebrating their loving leadership stories, and encouraging them through their struggles, too. This extended off-stage Q&A strengthens event momentum, deepens learning, and embodies love.
Here's what I learned: By noticing what was happening, questioning old assumptions about what had to happen, and trusting my gut, I created something better to offer meeting planners that brings deeper value.
How about you?
When in your work are you stuck in an old way of doing things? Have you seen a missed opportunity or something that just doesn't serve anymore? What loving innovation might you try instead to spark more uplift, connection, and impact?
I'd love to hear your story!
Here's to connecting with Love after keynote talks for greater value and meaningful learning!
